1 Corinthians 7:3-5 the wife–not just for the husband.
The “ten minutes and lube” advice promotes an attitude of “let’s get it over with because he wants it” rather than an attitude of enjoying and loving each other.
All it does is get a husband to stop complaining about the lack of sex in his marriage. Here’s how to stop having to listen to your husband complain?
Why do this, when we can invite wives to so much more?
The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband.
Frequent sexual activity sometimes can help a woman boost her libido (use this affiliate link to get to Sheila Gregoire’s Boost Your Libido course).It is only when we invite God into the process of healing and growth that our marriages can begin to grow toward His design for mutuality, oneness, and unity in the marriage bed.Let’s just stop with the “ten minutes and lube” advice, okay?“Have sex long enough to give him an orgasm,” we say, “but if it takes you longer than that that, it doesn’t matter.” When we say to use artificial lubrication, we are telling her that even her own arousal is unnecessary.Not only are we saying that her sexual pleasure shouldn’t matter her, we are saying that it probably doesn’t matter to him either—and that simply isn’t true!